There is a plague that seems to gradually affect the whole essence of human existence. No one can really tell when it was born. A silent but deadly threat it has become. Divorce is its name. The destruction of marriages is its primary aim.
All over the world, courts of law, elders’ councils and family gatherings are never tired of entertaining divorce cases. Ironically, these same institutions, among others, also endorse the union of couples in every holy matrimony.
Why do we move from saying “I do” to “we are through”? To an extent, everyone is meant to be social. As we go about our daily endeavours, we meet and relate with people. At that juncture, we can choose some for dating until one makes it with us to the altar. Unfortunately, over a period of time, some couples may feel disappointed in their own choices.
Is that enough reason to quit? Of course, it is not! Although insincerity, infidelity, insecurity and incompatibility are mostly the reasons for divorce cases, one major feature can never be left out. Everyone needs to always improve his or her own personality.
In the final analysis, some of us believe that divorce is a taboo while others see it as a tool. Here is the ‘marital truth’. If you cannot be truthful and follow it through, do not say “I do”. Come to think of it, this cuts across all walks of life, too!
IS EVERY MARRIAGE SUPPOSED TO BE A LOVELY BLEND OR A MEANS TO AN END?
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